POSITIVE FOR CHRISTIAN WOMEN “BEING THE HANNAH ON MANY A TEMPLE STEPS”

The Set In Place BIG Guys

2010 approx: I used to attend (try to test drive to join) a multi campus mega in DFW. I got witch watched, misogynist disrespected (first time EVER in my long life..in ministry) played, withstood biased against, played and disrespected for SHOWING UP the wrong GENDER, LOOK, AGE and VIBE. All I knew is that I was not a Think Pink Fragile Barbie, like they appeared to want.

I needed the presence God and after testing out a few fellowships, I could feel (but barely, more than most) the resemblance of God’s presence and  worship seemed good , also  I was a newbie, suffering from an unexpected Hurricane Katrina, which wiped out my entire life, family. (PS example of REAL LIFE PEOPLE and that was WHY I NEEDED to attend church)  But they didn’t know that, they just thought I was a TYPE for evidently they had  treated females like that before I came and surely are doing it now….which is WHY I address it..for it is a subculture within the Church in mostly charismatic. gifted WE CENTRIC WELP famous.

I tried to attend for a while. (turned out to be my very first Christian SYSTEM) I would sit there among the masses (3 service of 5 thousand each ) and marvel about that. I recall logically pondering the bias:
“‘If a women works in the business world then there are IRS government rule against bias “NO DISCRIMINATION BASED ON EARTH SUIT COLOR, GENDER, AGE, LOOKS” (in the secular world!) ..But here in God’s House, one of His most materialistically BLESSED I was only a TYPE in their WELP SYSTEM ELITE CASTE.
PS Ho hum. So be the Deep Southwest LEARNING CURVE 2005- 2020) I experienced…say WHOA!
Every reader notice: I was born in ministry to S Baptist pastor parents. I been commissioned to surf and study USA movement  ministry lead subcultures in Jesus People days beginning 1976.  I had my own call to professional sr ministry which was formerly The Encouraging Word In Richmond, VA area since 1987. BUT THIS STILL was not PERCEIVED, ACKNOWLEDGED by “this flavor of minister” I was just another soul in massive herd of trendy tithers. Also, by God’s GRACE at that time, I began to get on Twitter and design and write on the many WordPress ..had up to 150 at one point BACK THEN. So I began to ‘clever witticisms” which I give credit to the Holy Spirit “Word of Comments’ (word of Twitter) like ‘word of wisdom.” say HO HO, Humor , working out, designing, composing, laugh, real life and worship all keep me SANE.

In my prior state, I had been in many area wide pastor and heads of ministry ongoing prayer gatherings for YEARS prior to all of this, (decades) and could not “who is not sincere” (Bible realistic, pure motives’) and that helped me but waxing funny keeps JOYFUL (and I recall being inspired with a “WORD OF TWITTER due to that region(” First Social Media Comment I believe was ” THEY ALSO LEAD WHO DO NOT BLINDLY FOLLOW”  and re this particular  church (which I also regarded as “MOVE EM IN… MOVE EM  OUT “like the cattle on the old TV Western  RAWHIDE. Plus a comment rose up repeatedly in my  Spirit about this magnificent empty primarily Hail fellow, well met…sort of religious system  “THEY CALL ME MELLOW SHALLOW”

Rural county Central VA first started my awareness of “accuser keeping tabs” (mainly on many lone white females) which is ‘shepherding probably covering Big Boss doctrine. Also with it’s endless mind reading,  occult, targeting + ‘”submission” and reviling  and naming “church hoppers” (It was an surprise, big eye opener, for I had been raised a Baptist..which does NOT DEMAND THIS.. and had NO CLUE that these “overseer”  rules existed. (Hence Cross Body Unity first began LP Discovery which assisted in this now CROSS BODY UNITY Bible insight. and which helped to determine  the NEED for  true non Pharisee, “ministry relationship” calm foundations.

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“The Local LP Authoritarian  demands to know whom the single woman (with ‘no man visible beside her’) is ‘under’ or ‘submitted to.’ WHY?

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TD Inquires

Q. Why is it that certain Local Patriarchal (LP) Authoritarians demand to know whom a single woman—with no man visibly beside her—is ‘under’ or ‘submitted to’?

Is it:

• Sexism?

• Old-timey custom or law?

• Religious busybody culture?

• A deep-rooted patriarchy within some Christian ministries?

This kind of ministerial gatekeeping—often driven by unspoken rules in certain kinds of rigid, mostly Germanic (?)  charismatic or Pentecostal subcultures—is unchristian, outdated, and harmful.

POINT:

1. These  “alone looking” younger, older middle aged women could be:

POINT: She could be a married woman, whose husband does not attend church.

POINT: Plus, this she might be a newbie to the area, test driving churches while she waits for the rest of her family to relocate.

POINT:A forced-to-divorce female who has been abused, taken advantage of, and betrayed by many men… and tries to go to church, trying to keep going, to make friends, to keep (her heart forgiving and pure… (PS to avoid “man hating”).

POINT: It may be a grieving widow and abused woman, a single mom, who is barely making it to feed 3-4 children alone…

MAJOR POINT: Each of these Christian women of God may want to church “to survive,” to get away from the hellish stress of their complex situation for 2 hours of quiet (supposed respect, safety, and calm peace).

POINT: Also  it might be  Martha Stewart, a CEO on her off day..dress way down, no body guards, just weary from her latest business success.

POINT: A different figure on a female, could like the global international figure, sturdier bone structure, like the departed Golda Meir of Israel.

VALID POINT:  WHAT IS “THIS” THAT CHRISTIAN LONE  WOMEN  TRIGGER…in just the “Man’s Club Patriarchy?”

Is is sexism? Old timey law? Fear?  Custom? Passed down Lore ? Perhaps a  mis-telling of Adam and Eve “all women are weak and easily deceived”

Is it all male “‘ Busybody?” Is it ‘fear of loss of personal self government around an attractive, alone “woman”

What? “I note “who appears to do this’ as in a circle of similar styles of Christian, mostly this big ministry is on TOP and not “servant leader” but rather more “caste system, considers itself elite, but it has the energy of top down cliques, senior office minister elite clans, styles style and an ” in league  patriarchy of Christian ministry.” ….

A withstanding operating Genteel Prophetic Presumptive “Old Boys Club” and also their followers, protegees and many similar junior wannabes..

And it’s just like the world, except that it’s IN THE CHURCH.

The worst case bears authoritarian control along with  fruit akin to l 1 Samuel Eli and Big Boss Boys will be Boys Sons of the devil Hophni and Phineas.

POINT: Is this mysterious Male Only  Need for Top Down Controlling Power built in? Passed down? True or false Bible authority? Ignorance

POINT : these poor me sly fruits are deep in parts of teh USA LOCAL YOKEL Christian culture when you move into the area, as an expat leader. You just never met anything like that, that expects me, all others to bow in “submission” to it.

I was not raised under and I know more than these about order, authority, males, females, leader men, leader woman, marriage and family and ‘submission” but these do not: hence I train!

The LP ministry authority mostly papal style is found in the Deep South Patriachian style charismatic, need to Christian famous, lower rank and file pentecost. AND I AM NOT AGAINST THEM just against their false authority and attack psychic and out of order methods, false teaching also.

These are found amongst the high visibility LP  Great and  local Lowly.

When one moves into that type of area, or accustomed region, where these only “know” one type of Christian, one type of male or female and/or only ONE TYPE OF BIBLE TEACHING..these have been stuck in the one locale, “one self-reflecting” subculture group,  for maybe up to or more than 40 years… with no new blood… or ministry Bible realistic ideas…)

POINT: The Hebrews 10:25 ‘Dilemma’
And these above  wonder WHY we honest ones… stay away. (not just the women but all kinds)

And wonder WHY we worship  online or in private..

or go to the Starbucks (my coined useful term: the barista fellowship) to meet with companions OR to watch a service ONLINE with hot beverage..

THE PATRIARCHAL GATEKEEPING AT ITS WORST... usually (local, area, national Big Boss) Caucasian (?) It never greets, talks, gets to know, “RELATES” (old timey GOOD CHRISTIAN I John 1:7, Minister (if they perceive you and me as SINNING…”unsubmitted or worse”  Galatians 6:1. Matthew 18;15 but stalks, worried or just plain NOSEY, BIASED “Fear of woman” and less than women are SUPPOSED TO BE. UNDER THEM “their members?? ) NOTE for the mature.and sheltered, YES  that is out there..

POINT: MY RESPECT FOR THE HEAD OF A HOME

NOTE: PLEASE: that any  SINGLE LIVING APART TYPE OF FEMALE, THE HARD-WORKING SINGLE PARENT MATURE WOMAN “IS” THE HEAD OF HOME. and has to make HER OWN CHOICES, MANY BIG AND SMALL DECISIONS, and must not be dismissed, devalued,  demeaned (or defiled ) as a “child’ (like occurs)

The single, alone widow, divorcee, single parent, single parent raising their child’s children, the foster aunt, all female ages, styles, types and looks, race.

...ALL OF THESE DESERVE (and each one ought to EXPECT as a common given..) GENUINE Christian leader, male and ministry female, pastor, prophet, apostle, elder, staff, lay CHRIST’S decent AUTHENTIC RESPECT. —

RATHER THAN the current (mostly deep south) ministry rank and file usually bias,  chauvinism, defiling, rudeness, coarseness, control “withstanding” and all the accostomed and practiced sr /junior office,ministry look-down-on misogyny

ALSO leader Ministry typecasting, bias, and/or “user” “opportunists” (like Eli and two womanizer big sons)…

So IT IS ALSO with any atypical  SINGLE CHRISTIAN MAN, ANY HUMAN PERSON, of any race, size, age, demeanor, vibe, dress.

THIS IS A NEW NORM FOR THE CHARISMATIC  HOSTS AND WILL APPLY TO FUTURE CHURCH

DFW area prophetic charismatic taught me all of this. It was NOT the black, brown race. It was NOT denominationals. It was ONLY precision Patriarchy white Patriarchal ministry WELP.

And I shook the DFW dust off these feet and ceased test driving what I once loved to do, attend and immerse in the Book of Acts, Holy Spirit worship. But it was too fraught with control, false authority, no love, no holy fear and much Jezebel and witch consciousness which I teach now, backwards and forwards, also apostolic males and females and ministry due to all of THAT.

Showbiz gone wild, Charismatic Over ear Intrusive  Seers But No Ephesians 3:19 “to know Christ’s love which passes knowledge and be filled with fullness of God.”

NO Relationship Respect, NO value of their fellow common person.

It was disturbing and took me 3 long years after leaving to get over the demonic occult trauma, like PTSD.(I 2 other females who had lived in DFW metroplex

1) 24 years ago, I was sitting at the local Starbucks. I heard this lady complain to here friend about her time in Dallas area. I spoke up and she told me how had taken 8 years to get the divorce finalized and after 24 years still suffers PTSD from her time down there.

2) I met another lady in the women’s  hot tub at the gym in Charlotte. We were talking and she mentioned that she  had worked in the DFW Metroplex (Carrollton area) only 6 months..And without me saying anything about MY TIME down there, she commented’ “I was only there 6 months and it is 3 years later and I  “I still have PTSD from down there”

” A word is confirmed in the mouth of 2 or more witnesses” 
Let this word be clearly HEARD

We note that is the testimony of not just  2 but THREE  natural nice people, saying the IDENTICAL SAME THING and all HERS who are.  Caucasian leader women.

SO it’s NOT the experience, observation, fruit inspection of ONLY ONE Luke Eyewitness and THIS untamed person.

  And I say Many Kudos and a Hallellujah for more mature, more servant leader, massive Godly remnant Fort Mill Charlotte region. “Smart Good Neighbor’ I continually remark.

CLOSING: WHAT NOBODY WHO FOLLOW JESUS TRULY WANTS

We don’t want the Christian ministry BOYS CLUB (or GIRLS CLUB)

I note that is it usually marked by it’s  fast paced, speedy consumption, it’s accustomed to getting it’s own way. Also it’s  user, opportunist and highly misogynist, artful, and majorly cunning, prone demonic spying and (avoid relationship ) Evil eye, starting, mealy mouth typecasting Elite Narcissism (not every been near that. until celebrity WELP)

Found out the divorce lone leader women (do this on behalf of MANY (many whom they done this to before I saw it motion and who are still doing it now)..

SUCH AS

ONE: uneasy feeling, an evil witness; “looking for the chink in our armor”

TWO Temporal Minded Ambitious, Play Time Demas… Play time young and old… ministry… DFW. And in any MINISTRY BOYS CLUB anywhere (usually). Hence we TRAIN.

And some parts were VILE.

NOTORIOUS OLD WEAK WILLED  ELI

NOTE: 1 Samuel Evil Eye Eli and Big Boss Sons (read chapter 1-3):

When the Lone pure-hearted Hannah showed up,(the mother to be of the first prophet in the nation of Isreal) yet she was grieving ,  weeping on the temple porch, for she was barren and being targeted, persecuted by the other wife..But Hannah the more beloved wife of her husband Elkanah..yet he was not there beside and that triggered a dysfunctional high priest “jaded” stereotype.

Bible “The mouth speaks what the heart is full of” so at first glimpse of the lone woman Hannah weeping what spun out from  Eli’s heart was  accusation” Oh, SHE IS DRUNK” Meaning “oh woe, one more of those willful, time waste baggage laden Little Women (like toxic patriachian My Way or the High Way most of DFW turf guarding, unyielding spirit filled (NOT ALL) but charismatic mostly show biz .

Head Temple Priest, Old LP ELI  far off accused the pure motived Hannah of  being “A DRUNK” (a ministry stereotype, diminishing type of papal bias).

MAKES ME RECALL A SERIES

“Eli’s coming hide your hearts now…”(maybe I will repost the multi part series I did about that around 2014 “The Compassion Fatigued Eli Temple High Priesthood”

MAYBE…LP Eli’s talented and big gifted sons, who must have  attractive,  mesmerizing, big mantled and possibly Chick Magnet ALPHA MALE BOSS MEN….had never seen a woman like Hannah, who was NOT their… personal property, nor .their willing slave, nor their their cutesy concubine.

ELI and Both his reigning sons are a LP Tale of  MINISTRY USING, DEFILING, ABUSING CHURCH WOMEN…

..who must  be assessed by the unjust fruit of self indulgent EGO  NARCISSISM..which is a BIG DEAL OFTEN in cult celebrity worship.

FAULT FINDING OF VISITING, AREA, LOCAL NON MEMBER FEMALES
“The Accuser of the Girls, the Motheren, the Sisteren” by the “man’s club” and their doctrinal subculture and  devout clannish ‘tribes”

1. And yet LP often malign, spread tales about, put these on charismatic witch lists and rumor, mark  LONE women

2. The Lone Woman is attending, visiting “looking for a MAN”..going after ONE OF OUR MEN.

3. Lone Divorced'”needy, weak, easy, ready prey (
   Resemble a Bible forewarned 2 Timothy 3;6-8 situation, but when I noted that in the former deep southwest country subculture…it was discouraging, horrifying to believe the certain (not many but SOME ) Christian saved ministry men know this verse, pervert it.. and are used to it in the culture…and then identify ‘women as “weak, lust laden and willing and READY”

4. I SAY APOSTOLICALLY “A BIG THROW UP!”

5. And It’s WHY I LEFT as soon as I could.that dysfunction, user, unholy, opportunist, unclean unsaved ministry accuser, user vile subculture

6. NEVER COULD HAVE IMAGINED that there pockets, groups of “saved Christian”  MEN are Mama’s Boys Can Do No Wrong and WHO (ego, unsaved narcissism) believe the “leader women” are easy prey, “needing it”  guillable, settling, stupid and also unholy and many  unsaved.

   .MY COMMENTS: IT’S SICK,IMMORAL, LICENTIOUS, EVIL,  FOUL, VILE, IMPURE and UNHOLY,  DISGUSTING)

7. Apostle Paul in 2 Timothy 3:1-8 says to ” GET OUT!”

8.   Haughty Evil Eye (avoid, withstand , glare, toy with us, block us..and MIND  READ US) (judging this like Adam in Genesis 3, after the human carnal fall: “But God those women out their they are wanting US. We’re so fine and Eve caused it all. So ALL WOMEN are OUR rightful property ,to do with as we wish.

   Many of those willing little women are witchy and up to no good. WHY ? My mentoring Pappy said so.

So Lord, it’s YOUR FAULT about all the tempting women…WHY because YOU MADE THEM, And MAMA said “My Baby Boy can do NO WRONG”

The Mentoring High Papa said “Boys will be Boys’ (But YOU girls, who fall for their play boy lines are   GIRLS are harlots, rebellious and no good   SEDUCTIVE TRAMPS)

THUS IS THE I SAMUEL and CURRENT

“The Eli Temple Office Patriarchal LP double standard

My Real Life (Wake Up Call) Comments :

• No wonder honest real leader women, single, single parents men also, youth careful seekers stay away.

• Many  worship online, in private, or even at the local café with friends. The institutional church has pushed us out with its rigidity and lack of compassion.

• The single, hardworking, mature woman IS the head of her household—whether divorced, widowed, or never married. She deserves basic respect—not misogyny, defiling stares, ministry shunning, or manipulative power games.

• This issue affects men too. Divorced men get accused, biased against by the same LP style.

•  Any ALL single, married, persons,  Christian—man or woman, —deserves RESPECT and dignity and equality in Christ. (Even if YOU do not like their style, look, race, age, choices)

• I noticed this first in rural Central Virginia, especially among charismatic worship groups heavily into “shepherding,” “covering,” and later NAR (New Apostolic Reformation) apostles. It has gotten worsen as this grew more power, numbers, habits, skill, more celebrity,. Also it has turned much more cultish and more  occult (divining ‘dark scanning)  from far away since late 1990s’..

• CURIOUS: AND WHY DO THEY NOT RELATE BUT INNER DEEP SCAN US?? “to read to save time?? or too holy to mix with us commoners?? To save wear and tear?  To keep big boss control?

• DEEP SCAN WITH I JOHN 1:7 “NATURAL NORMAL CHRISTIAN COMMUNITY RELATIONSHIP is evil…and it is skilled divining seers gone awry. ..which is akin to the Puritan Salem Mass, witch trials (spectral evidence which is false religious, false doctrine , not Bible nor Jesus but charismatic witchcraft. from the late 1980s onward.

• In DFW (Dallas–Fort Worth), I encountered toxic ministry cliques—(all these are anywhere in USA, world, I ‘d just never lived in an area where the following were so DENSE and “high numbers per capita” in Christian area  trying hard ministry….meaning: many opportunists, stereotyping, power-users, and ministry playboys.

• That’s when I knew, God had SENT ME like a weeping Hannah, also a book worm type of Daniel, into BABLYON type ministry. 

As as result, I realized that we must TRAIN the next generation differently TO. HAVE ” CHRISTIAN FUTURE CHURCH” (it’s still in grave True Danger July 2025)

CHIEF SUMMARY:

It’s Big Boss superior pride, anti woman, anti Jesus Christ, And unsafe, unholy and unsubmitted to Paul in Ephesians 5:21 “mutual submission in the fear of the Lord’ Community Ephesians 4: 1-4 “and again does resemble the James 3:17 ‘wisdom from above pure, easily entreated, without partiality “I John 1:7 “relationship” “when you put on Christ there is no male, female”

Every single one of these  above major points, separately, collectively is WHY MANY PERSONS have dropped out of Church,have massive distrust, anger toward “the church ” (seen this on social media, happily not up close in real life) but it’s OLD and YOUNG..

The DISRESPECT and SIN CONSCIOUS, BIAS are ANTI  the cause of Christ and ANTI PRODUCTIVE in Hebrews 10:25 ‘gathering with the saints” and are basically  ANTI BIBLE, ANTI PERSONS and WRONG..

Still these deep embedded haughty mindsets still lingers in too many pulpits today.

(and their elders, staff, ministry associates, cell leaders and the many subservient LP slave like women.

And even if YOU doubt this, or fully disagree, it is at least worth thinking about and ough to be TRAINED for the FUTURE CHURCH

Amen. This writer is PRO CHRISTIANS, PRO MEN, PRO WELP/WELP , PRO LEADERS and PRO DIVERSE HUMANS PERSONS MADE IN GOD’S IMAGE’…

No hard feelings  but must  submit to Paul “to turn away”from the nature of the fruits.. at least for now.

Sincerely,

Non Dominating Mature Sister T

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