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RELATIONSHIP (EMOTIONAL) DISHONESTY: ACCUSATION AKIN TO “WE ARE RIGHT” PHARISEEISM + MORE

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“Withhold not good from them to whom it is due, when it is in the power of thine hand to do it.” Proverbs 3:19

“For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.”Ephesians 6:12

“Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, this he will also reap.” Galatians 6:7

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EMOTIONAL DISHONESTY: ACCUSATION AKIN TO “WE ARE RIGHT” PHARISEEISM+ MANY MORE
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HISTORICALLY a few of my very own major (RELATIONSHIP) disappointments are special times when appearing to be very bright, coming across as All Wise Persons, who have been given special GIFTS sit down and ignore the fact that you are in need of that one particular gift to get you to the next leader , personal level. It is quite shocking as you will notice how they go out of their own way for persons to whom they are not related, and from whom in business, even ministry …are getting paid.(?)

 

Having run into 3-4 of these trying examples, even recently, which I now submit as a SPECIAL RELATIONSHIP CATEGORY: It may help some other apostolic leader by tipping them off so that they are not moved or discouraged, even defeated by this particular kind.

 

 

For indeed, this ANTI RELATIONSHIP persona indeed resembles MANY in both Old and New Testaments, whom the accuser devil tried to use to thwart, hinder and ultimately block some of God’s named office leaders.

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RELATIONSHIP CATEGORY: Human person (persons) who REFUSE to assist in any way, yet they complain, murmur and put one down for submitting to God, whenever they are not even purely committed to God’s Holy Bible.

 

 

Similar to the religious “We are all knowing and RIGHT” Pharisees, they employ RELATIONSHIP /EMOTIONAL DISHONESTY , CONFUSION by hindering, throwing one off true focus by attacking, arguing, using various feeble put downs…

 

 

Among the more artful of this Double Edged, even skillfully Double Tongued Big Tribe. appear to be the leader big ones who may use skill, power, position, blame shifting to block you. A few use darker more subversive (“Oh, no, it wasn’t ME!”) approaches : major betrayals, snide character assignations, hitting below the proverbial belt accuser attacks.

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APOSTLIC PROPHET NEHEMIAH

Back in Old Testament leader days, the Prophet Nehemiah continually suffered with this similar type RELATIONSHIP TOXICITY as he repeatedly interacted with many trying persons as he undertook the King’s Commission to rebuild the walls.

 

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NEW TESTAMENT ACCUSER RELIGIOUS PHARISEES

Alas, the always eagle far away WATCHING Religious Pharisees, many different others..never desired AUTHENTIC RELATIONSHIP but rather to WIN, COMPETE “feel better than” “superior OVER.” One never truly knows what goes on inside their own SELF TALK (soulish temporal finite minds).

UNLIKE abiding JAMES 3:17 “pure,peaceable, easily entreated, full of mercy, good fruits, without partiality, without HYPOCRISY” the accuser SPIRITUAL TRIBES each seem to have in coming…again: they are not after COMMUNITY, RELATIONSHIP HARMONY…but rather feel that ongoing need to . DEBATE, to OVER POWER (or out perform) which actually is the big sign of anxiety and all too human spiritual WEAKNESS.

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KING SAUL AGAINST RISING KING DAVID

THE strongly oppressed, emotionally unhealthy King Saul continually felt a gnawing inner need to attack the HERO LEADER ANOINTING on the inside of the young, rising King David.

SELAH: Whatever SPIRITUAL LIFE DNA was on DAVID was discerned but not understood by whatever was on the spiritual, emotional DNA of Saul..therefore as SAUL was in the FLESH, CARNAL, he did not understand what it was that got him so UPSET, RILED, deeply ANGRY with future KING DAVID..

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SERVANT LEADER APOSTLE PAUL

The SPIRITUAL DNA on APOSTLE PAUL was far different from the FIRST ORGANIC TWELVE APOSTLES, who had been hand picked, mentored personally by JESUS during His precious LIFE. SO when APOSTLE PAUL came along, for 14 long years, the FIRST TWLEVE did not want to collator with Paul, therefore he went to Arabia (Damascus) ( Where God evidently blessed him as Paul wrote 2/3 of the New Testament!) (PS and Paul did not come back from living among the ARABS with any FEAR, BIAS of them” Yet, Apostle Paul surely had many friends, family like acquaintances plus additional Holy SPIrit MIGHT AND POWER!)

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AMERICAN BULLYING:

Example today of SPIRITUAL DNA setting off HUMAN CARNAL TROUBLE: BULLYING and a WELL RAISED HEART HEALTHY YOUTH, PRETEEN, CHILD. Submitted as SELAH.

 

APOSTLE PAUL notes, “For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.” A boatload of multicultural diverse Ephesians 6:12

 

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ACCUSATION MINUS RELATIONSHIP

Far off criticism, minus any offers to help can cause FAILURE in a staff, family, team, business by sheer IGNORANCE and /or SINS OF OMISSION.

“Withhold not good from them to whom it is due, when it is in the power of thine hand to do it.” PROVERBS 3:27

Standing by overseer watching, never lifting a finger to help, yet belittling, accusing, muttering “they are not good enough” is similar to pronouncing to RELATIONSHIP SABOTAGE, RELATIONSHIP DEEP DISRESPECT. (SELF WORSHIP)

Refusing to HELP when another may be in survival deep mode..is like tossing them an anchor rather than handing them a life jacket. It is actually a form of cruelty, when abuse is also part of the leader accusation.

But the Lord is overseer watching.

“Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, this he will also reap.” GALATIANS 6:7
And He maintains the over all Balances.

“YOU’RE not living in reality” and “Unlike ME/US/WE they’re a failure”…Akin to back in Jesus Day…they ever notice, never rise to help.

 

Piling up many accusations, laying false blame..as if it is  YOUR FAULT for NOT “rising up” like THEY told that YOU could, should”

Adventure in Blame Shifting ” …..surfing the seas of Ye Must Be Born Again Egyptians….living in DeNile?

Yet, non accuser Jesus Christ understood all that. He left the true Bride of Christ the overcoming LEGACY of REVELATION 12:7-11

Yet, non accuser Jesus Christ understood all that. He left the true Bride of Christ the overcoming LEGACY of REVELATION 12:7-11

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Revelation+12%3A7-11&version=KJV

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