TAVEAU’S ABIDING JAMES 3:17 RELATIONSHIP THEOLOGY AND DIVERSE MINISTRY EORR A.R.T. ABIDING JAMES 3:17 RELATIONSHIP THEOLOGY is a part of Taveau D’Arcy  Creative Leadership Ministries Apostolic Teammate U…and the Move among ministers…Ephesians 4 “and cross cultural,  Body Christ…. CROSS BODY UNITY.COM and is RIGHT NOW  apostolic ministry training however, it  begin in 2012,in DFW.  DIVERSE EORR ..is also including full ART, CROSS BODY UNITY, required teaching…as it includes  ANTI BIAS, ANTI ACCUSATION and RELATIONSHIP MATURITY.  “EORR”  is the abbreviation for  “Equal Opportunity REAL RESPECT for the Office of Every Human Made in the Image of God (EORR for short)    TAVEAU’S A.R.T.** ABIDING (IN ENDURING) James 3:17 RELATIONSHIP THEOLOGY ** Deep inside each human heart is A.R.T. Their Abiding Relationship Theology. Many times is caring, compassion, thoughtful A.R.T. Other times, persons may have dark hiding, troublesome, manipulative A.R.T.     TAVEAU D’ARCY’S  10 BIBLE RELATIONSHIPS POINTS We need to assess, evaluate and, if necessary, respectfully and privately confront one-on-one with love. Accuse vs. Evaluate—it makes or breaks a fellowship, ministry, business, or family. (C)2014 Taveau D’Arcy All copyrights reserved under international copyright laws   BELOW is a list of what Pastor T names the “10 Basic Real Life Relationship: In Ministry, Family, Network, Business Also these are at the roots of SOCIETY, FAMILY, FELLOWSHIP, BUSINESS, ALL TRUE GOVERNMENT, PERSONAL TRUE AUTHORITY   http://www.relationshiptheology.com     The Ketchup Test HOW WELL WE EACH PASS THE “KETCHUP TEST” WILL ENSURE HOW STRONG EACH APOSTOLIC RELATIONSHIP TRULY IS. THE KETCHUP TEST is a mental picture example: Whenever a person places pressure on the OUTSIDE of the plastic ketchup bottle, whatever is on the INSIDE inside, will eventually come OUT. (This is similar to ALL ONGOING BIBLE REAL LIFE RELATIONSHIPS..)     http://www.relationshiptheology.org THE TEN BIBLE REAL LIFE RELATIONSHIPS The Love of Money is the root of all evil “The Bible THE RELATIONSHIP with MONEY, MAKING MONEY, NOT HAVING THE RIGHT AMOUNT OF  MONEY is the root of all evil” Taveau D’Arcy (C)2014 Taveau D’Arcy All rights reserved all copyrights reserved under international copyright laws  TAVEAU D’ARCY  LEADERSHIP EQUIPPING  identifies the following 8 through the Holy Bible ongoing,even chief apostolic RELATIONSHIPS as follows:   #1.A HUMAN’s RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD   #2.A HUMAN’S RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM/HER OWN INNER SELF ( basic self talk )   #3.A HUMAN’S RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS/HER SPOUSE   #4.A HUMAN’S RELATIONSHIP WITH CHILDREN, STEP CHILDREN   #5.A HUMAN’S RELATIONSHIP WITH EXTENDED FAMILY, CLOSE FRIENDS   #6.A HUMAN’S RELATIONSHIP WITH COMMUNITY, IN BUSINESS, ACQUAINTANCES   #7.A HUMAN’S RELATIONSHIP WITH CHURCH/WITHIN THE BORN AGAIN CHRIST FOLLOWING COMMUNITY   #8.A HUMAN’S RELATIONSHIPS WITH SYSTEMS AND SECULAR INSTITUTIONS,INCLUDING GOVERNMENT, ETC   TWO  VERY SURPRISING TYPE OF REAL RELATIONSHIPS: Sister Taveau submits the modern day “ongoing ” real life Relationships with #9. MONEY:  A PERSON AND THEIR MAMMON, MAKING MONEY, KEEPING MONEY, MAKING MORE MONEY, NEEDING MONEY, OUT OF MONEY, ETC (usually owning ,OWNING,POSSSESSING “STUFF”   10. MEDIA: A PERSON’S (child, adult, senior, man, woman, any body) WITH THEIR OWN MEDIA, ONLINE , WHEN BY THEMSELVES AND WITH OTHERS May include: cell,tablet, PC, laptop, apps, email,video games, movies and who knows what) Premise: Throughout real life, the constant tug-of-war is maintaining, keeping, and preserving each relationship without allowing them to resemble mankind’s accuser—“the accuser of the brethren”—the fault-finder, demeaner, deceiver, betrayer, abuser, big bullier, great divider, family feud maintainer, war provoker, underminer, character assassin, etc. TEACHING MAIN PREMISE: CAN WE TRAIN EACH CHRISTIAN PERSON, AND OURSELVES, TO “SELF MONITOR” and ongoing  ” CHOOSE” TO “WANT” TO ABIDE IN THE “RELATIONSHIP RESPECT” FRUIT OF PURE  COMMUNITY? This means: FIRST: which resembles the “James 3:17 wisdom from above? (by enlisting God’s help and self governing fruit) “The wisdom of God is first of all pure, peaceable, easily entreated, full of mercy and good fruits without partiality and without hypocrisy “First Church James 3:17 SECOND And the Messiah of Isaiah 11:3 (not the critical Accuser): Isaiah 11:3 “He will be quick of understanding, and will delight Himself in the fear of the Lord, and will not judge by the sight of His eyes or make decisions based on what He hears.” DO WE REALIZE THAT THIS HAS NOT BEEN FULFILLED AND THE HOUR IS UPON US?? APOSTOLIC REVELATION 12:7-11King James Version (KJV) 7 And there was war in heaven: Michael and his angels fought against the dragon; and the dragon fought and his angels, 8 And prevailed not; neither was their place found any more in heaven. 9 And the great dragon was cast out, that old serpent, called the Devil, and Satan, which deceiveth the whole world: he was cast out into the earth, and his angels were cast out with him. 10 And I heard a loud voice saying in heaven, Now is come salvation, and strength, and the kingdom of our God, and the power of his Christ: for the accuser of our brethren is cast down, which accused them before our God day and night. 11 And they overcame HIM (the deceiver ACCUSER) by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony; and they loved not their lives unto the death. DO WE EACH BELIEVE? Leader’s Premise: According to Revelation 12, the Church has already been given back its (fallen) self-governing ability through God’s ongoing, abiding Holy Spirit and His empowering self-governing power. “They overcame him (the accuser) by the blood of the Lamb, by the word of their testimony, and they loved not their lives unto death.” — Revelation 12:11 (Read the entire chapter for full context and understanding.) All relationships may be further examined by the mature pioneering leader, expanding discussions to include one’s personal relationship with food, alcohol, shopping, viewing X-rated material, codependency, etc.   TO TRAIN OUR LEADERS< THEN TRAIN THE FAMILY, YOUTH, CHILDREN, STEP CHILDREN, OTHER AUTHORITIES (below) This is 2025:  I use a bit of Chat GPT AI to give some ideas for training children/mature adults It commented Christian Self-Control: (TRAINING) Christian self-control, as part of the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23), is an essential aspect of maturing in Christ. It is not just about restraining desires or actions, but about aligning our will and behavior with God’s will. It is a spiritual discipline that invites us to partner with the Holy Spirit in the process of transformation, helping us to live in a way that values relationships more than material things like toys or money. Self-control allows us to reflect Christ’s character and be good stewards of the blessings we receive. Teaching Children About Self-Control: Lead by Example: Children learn more by watching adults than by hearing instructions. As parents or leaders, practice self-control in your own life—whether it’s in your speech, your emotional responses, or your material possessions. Children will learn to value relationships over possessions by seeing this modeled. Teach Delayed Gratification: One of the key aspects of self-control is waiting for what is best. Teach children the importance of delayed gratification, whether it’s waiting for dessert or saving for something important. This builds a mindset that focuses on long-term value over immediate pleasures. Relationship Valuing: Help children understand that relationships (with family, friends, and ultimately with God) are more important than material things. For example, encourage children to share their toys or to give up something they love to help someone in need, showing that love and kindness are greater than possessions. Scripture and Prayer: Teach children scriptures related to self-control, such as Proverbs 25:28 (“He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down and without walls”) and Galatians 5:22-23. Encourage them to pray for the Holy Spirit’s help in exercising self-control, asking for wisdom and strength when tempted. Growing in Self-Examination and Holy Spirit Self-Government: To grow in self-control, we must first develop the habit of self-examination—the practice of reflecting on our thoughts, actions, and motivations. This allows us to discern areas where we need to rely more on the Holy Spirit. Knowing Jesus: True self-control begins with knowing Jesus intimately. The more we spend time with Him—through prayer, reading Scripture, and worship—the more we become like Him. As we abide in Christ (John 15:4-5), His character transforms us, and the fruit of the Spirit grows in our lives. In particular, self-control becomes a natural outflow of a deep relationship with Jesus. Galatians 5:22-23: These verses list the fruit of the Spirit, including self-control. These are not mere traits that we must strive for on our own; they are the result of the Holy Spirit’s work in us. When we walk in the Spirit, we naturally bear this fruit. To grow in self-control, we must allow the Holy Spirit to cultivate these qualities in us through prayer, meditation on the Word, and submission to His leading. Self-Government Through the Holy Spirit: Holy Spirit self-government means living in accordance with the guidance and conviction of the Spirit, resisting the temptation to be led by fleshly desires or external pressures. As we grow in self-examination, we begin to understand areas where the Holy Spirit is prompting us to change. This process involves recognizing where we might be acting out of selfishness, pride, or impatience, and allowing the Spirit to redirect us. Resembling James 3:18 & Isaiah 11:2-3: James 3:18 (KJV): “And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.”This verse highlights that self-control results in peace, not only for us but also for others. Self-control is essential in creating harmony in relationships—valuing the peace that comes from God above temporary desires or reactions. Isaiah 11:2-3 (KJV): “And the spirit of the Lord shall rest upon him, the spirit of wisdom and understanding, the spirit of counsel and might, the spirit of knowledge and of the fear of the Lord; And shall make him of quick understanding in the fear of the Lord: and he shall not judge after the sight of his eyes, neither reprove after the hearing of his ears…”This passage describes the attributes of the Spirit that enable us to walk in wisdom and self-control. When we cultivate the fruit of the Spirit, we grow in wisdom and understanding, allowing us to make decisions not based on superficial impressions, but by the guidance of the Holy Spirit. In summary, Christian self-control is not a passive exercise but an active process of yielding to the Holy Spirit, examining ourselves, and cultivating godly virtues. Teaching children to value relationships over material things, leading by example, and fostering a relationship with Jesus all contribute to a life of self-control. As we grow in the fruit of the Spirit, we practice Holy Spirit self-government, resulting in a peaceful, righteous life that mirrors the wisdom and understanding described in James and Isaiah. Support the Cause. Sow a Love Offering of ANY Spirit directed leader amount! (C)2025 DFW Leader Ministry Fellowship All copyrights reserved   Purpose: To get attain to train in Abiding (enduring, overcoming, community, private, public, society) My ABIDING JAMES 3:17 RELATIONSHIP THEOLOGY  I define A.R.T. “Abiding Relationship Theology” (c)2015 Taveau D’Arcy All copyrights reserved under international copyright laws A.R.T. IS “Deep inside EVERY  human hearts is A.R.T.” (Abiding Relationship Theology which is “Pure, calm, wise, fair, non biased, respecting and HEALTHY… OR It’s A.R.T. which is impure, coveting, using, twisted, toxic, impure, conniving, biased, manipulative, controlling or witchy”..meaning UNHEALTHY..   THE GODLY SECRET TO SELF MONITOR “YOUR OWN HEART” ALSO to TRAIN FELLOW CHRISTIANS, FAMILY MEMBERS, CHILDREN, YOUTH, ANY OTHER..about DOING THE SAME and doing everyones BEST to MODEL, TO RESEMBLE the mature fruit of James 3:17 “the wisdom that comes from above is pure, peaceable, easily entreated, full of mercy and good fruit (Galatians 5:22-23 Pauline fruits of the spirit)  without partiality and without hypocrisy” ** EVEN UNDER BIG LONG SUFFERING GIANT PRESSURE (but how? Go to GOD for HIS HELP and STRENGTH and get into His Word, if needed get MUCH PRAYER  even wise ministry, personal “relationship” COUNSEL”   PERSONAL ASSIGNMENT AND…FOR EACH PERSON TO DO: Google Search the American History of that. See the different … Continue reading TD’S A.R.T. THE 10 BIBLE RELATIONSHIPSG